Ian's parents and Ian made arrangements that emails will do just fine except for special occasions. Ian will notify us beforehand to expect his calls on those special occasion. We felt good about this decision and it will help to facilitate Ian's independence if his parents do the littlest of intervention. Ian will write email to his parents then parents will post it on the blog. Meanwhile you all are free to write to him but don't expect a personalized letter. Whatever you do will really help him out so much - knowing that people at home love him and are thinking of him.
The letter from his mission president:
February 17, 2019
Dear Parents of missionaries in the Santo Domingo West Mission,
You have undoubtedly heard of the church’s announcement that missionaries now have more options to communicate with their families. We would like you to know how you can best incorporate this change into your son or daughter’s mission.
Please know that we view this as an opportunity for you to be more aware and appreciative of the service your son or daughter is providing. We are confident that you understand that we and the Lord expects missionaries to be consecrated in every way. A consecrated missionary puts God first and foremost in his life. He has covenanted to give everything to the Lord: his talents, his time, his resources. In addition, the missionaries have promised to serve not only with all their heart, might and strength, but with all their heart, might, strength and Mind.
A consecrated missionary must keep his mind in the mission, not in his home. If he expects to receive personal revelation about his area and the people, he is teaching he must be pondering his area and the people he is teaching. If his mind is in his home, he will be seriously distracted and unable to receive guidance from the Spirit regarding his calling.
Our missionaries often have a difficult first transfer because they are still thinking about their homes. When they “forget themselves” and “go to work” as President Hinckley’s father so wisely advised, they begin to enjoy their mission and develop Christlike characteristics They will not enjoy their mission if they are constantly thinking about home.
One of the best missionaries we ever had demonstrated what it means to be a consecrated missionary. Her district leader casually asked her one day, “How is your family doing?” She replied, “Oh my family is so great. Five members will be baptized this weekend.” The confused district leader responded, “But I thought your family was already members of the church.” “No, we have been teaching them for several weeks now, and they are going to be baptized this weekend,” she replied. The district leader realized this consecrated sister didn’t even realize he was asking about her family at home. She was thinking about the family she was teaching here in the mission. When missionaries can accomplish this level of consecration, they can become who God wants them to be.
Please note that this new announcement from the church asks that calls be initiated by the missionary rather than the family. Please allow your missionary to call when he or she feels it is necessary, rather than requesting a call. Also note that the purpose of the change is to “allow the family to be more involved in the missionary’s efforts and experiences.” Clearly the conversations should not be about what is happening at home, but about what is happening in the mission. We hope you will see this as an opportunity to take a greater interest in the work here in the mission, to get to know the people your missionary is teaching, to rejoice in their progress, and celebrate when they are baptized, confirmed and progress in the church.
We expect that changes in the Santo Domingo West mission will be positive albeit minor. The missionaries have 75 minutes to use computers on their preparation day. During this time, they must read a letter from the mission president, write a letter to the mission president, post their key indicators and write and respond to all other emails. Please do not feel neglected if they choose to spend their time fulfilling their calling.
(this part of email was deleted due to private information being given out). Thank you very much for having the same vision for a successful mission and successful missionary that we have.
Sincerely,
President and Sister Santos